“一切为了孩子”“为了孩子的一切”,这样的教养观念直接折射出家长对子女的爱和期望。然而,在现实生活中父母所付出的爱有时得不到相应的回报,常出现“事与愿违”“南辕北辙”的情况。问题就出在有些家长忽略了爱的针对性。有这样两个案例:案例一:某男孩,6周岁,行动迟缓,少言 “All for children” “For all children,” such a concept of parenting directly reflects the parents love and expectation of their children. However, in real life, the love parents sometimes do not get the corresponding return, often “contrary to expectations” and “diametrically opposite” situation. The problem is that some parents ignore the relevance of love. There are two cases: Case 1: a boy, 6 years old, slow, little words