工作中我们常常强调表扬的作用，对孩子要多表扬、多鼓励，以求他能在原有的基础上有所发展、有所进步。可是，最近发生的一件事让我感觉反向表扬的效果也不错。在一次谈话活动中，我们谈到了剩饭的问题。不知是谁一下子站起来指着安家桢说：“安家桢不吃青菜，每次都剩饭。” In our work, we often emphasize the role of compliment, give more praise and encouragement to our children in order that they can make some progress and make progress on the basis of their own. However, one recent incident made me feel that the effect of reverse praise was not bad. During a conversation, we talked about the issue of leftovers. Who do I do not know who stood up and pointed to Anji Zhen at once, said: “An Jiazhen do not eat greens, leftovers every time.”