人生进退是常事,关键在一个“熬”字。火候到了,滋味自然就有了。有人说人生如粥,有人说人生如药,也有人说人生如汤。可无论是哪种滋味,这滋味都必然是在悠悠岁月中熬出来的。这个“熬”字很传神。人生马拉松,很多要靠熬。日出而作,日落而息,生活、工作多是重复,熬才能出头。对于自己的事情不轻易放弃,不随便离开自己的位置,就在那里一步一步地努力,熬得住,才有柳暗花明。熬,表面上是一种考验,实际上是一种升华,就像林语堂所说:“捧着一把茶壶,把人生煎熬到最本质的精髓。” Advance and retreat life is common, the key in a “boil ” word. When the heat is up, there is a natural taste. Some people say that life is like porridge, some people say that life is like medicine, while others say that life is like soup. No matter what kind of taste, this taste must be boiled out in a long time. This “boil ” is very vivid. Life marathon, many rely on boil. Sunrise and sunset, and interest rates, life, work is repeated, boil to succeed. Not easy to give up on their own things, do not just leave their place, where the step by step efforts, boil it, only illusory. Boil, on the surface is a test, in fact, is a sublimation, as Lin Yutang said: “holding a teapot, the essence of life to the most essential.”