朋友很苦恼地告诉我,孩子高考成绩不理想,丈夫责怪她没有尽到责任,家里每天不是吵架就是冷战,日子没办法过下去。我问她:“你在家会常说‘我爱你、也许你是对的、不要紧、你能行’这几句话吗?”她摇摇头说:“平平常常的一家人,哪来那么多的客气?有必要吗?”我让她回家试试,看看有没有作用。昨天,接到她的电话,说真的有效果,孩子和丈夫的脸色转变了很多。家常日子琐琐碎碎,难免发生一些磕磕碰碰 My friend told me angrily that my child failed in the college entrance examination. Her husband blamed her for not doing her duty. Every day in the family was not a quarrel with the Cold War. There was no way to survive. I asked her: “You often say ’I love you, maybe you are right, it does not matter, can you do these words?’” She shook her head and said: “Ordinary family, So polite? Is it necessary? ”I let her go home and try to see if there is any effect. Yesterday, received her phone, really effective, the face of children and her husband changed a lot. Homemade trivial trivial, it is inevitable that some bump