最近,应邀访问了美国华盛顿的一所理工大学,有幸在一位哲学教授的家里作客,这是一个单亲家庭,从中国人的想法或眼光来看,这位年近“知天命年纪”的先生,带着一个10岁男孩和一个8岁女孩的男人,一定是愁云满面,既要在这个竞争激烈的美国社会为事业奔波,又要做好两个孩子的父亲,实在是难为了他。出乎意料的是,在与他的交谈中,这位教授表现出了美国人特有的豁达与开朗,他与前妻离婚虽已2年有余,现在有着相好的女朋友,但至今仍未有重组家庭的意向;其前 Recently, I was invited to visit a polytechnic university in Washington, DC, and am fortunate enough to be a guest of a philosopher’s professor. This is a single-parent family. From the Chinese’s point of view or perspective, , A man with a 10-year-old boy and an 8-year-old girl must have been overwhelmed by melancholy. It was hard for him, both in career and in the competitive American society, to be the father of two children . Unexpectedly, in his conversation with the professor, the professor showed the unique open-mindedness and cheerfulness of the Americans. Although he divorced his ex-wife over two years and now has a good girlfriend, he still has not reorganized The family’s intention; the former