《父母必读》的编辑拿给我一本书,是艾里姆夫妇写的《养育青春少年》,问我有没有兴趣把这本书翻译出来。我翻开第一页,就被它深深地吸引了。当我们决定写这本书的时候,我问自己,为什么提起青春期,在大多数人中会产生如此强烈的反响?父母的这种反应可能是因为他们在某种程度上想起了自己在青少年时期所经历过的笨拙、焦虑、困惑.自我怀疑、孤独等等的感觉。在我们抚养自己的孩子度过他们的青春期时,难 The editor of “Parents Must Read” gave me a book that was written by Allims to “raise teenagers” and asked me if I was interested in translating this book. I opened the first page, it was deeply attracted by it. When we decided to write this book, I asked myself why my adolescence was so intensely reactive among most people that my parents reacted probably because they remembered, to some extent, their own age in adolescence Experiencing clumsiness, anxiety, confusion, self-doubt, loneliness and so on. Difficult when we spend our adolescence raising our children