前不久,我和好友王女士聊天,她屡屡讲起她的儿子,5岁的壮壮。显然,她有点自恋地以为,她应该是一个好妈妈,因为她不仅愿意聆听儿子的心声,还非常了解儿子。譬如,每当小家伙生闷气时,她总能不出三次就可以猜到他生气的原因。为了说明这一点,她给我讲了一个小故事:一天早上,她起床后去儿子的小床边,像往常一样想和儿子亲昵,但却发现小家伙很勉强,脸上的 Not long ago, I chatted with my friend Ms. Wang. She often talked about her son, who is 5 years old and strong. Obviously, she thinks a little narcissisticly that she should be a good mother because she is not only willing to listen to her son’s voice, but also to her son. For example, every time a little guy gets sulky, she can always guess why he is angry three times. To illustrate this point, she told me a little story: one morning she went to bed after her son’s bedside, as usual, like to intimacy with his son, but found the little guy is reluctantly, his face