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小婚家说:小婚家发了一篇名为《多少婚姻过不好,离不了—这才是很多人困在不幸中的真相》的文章,引起了很多人的共鸣。作者认为很多人离不了婚主要有6个原因,分别是:1.对疼痛上瘾:明知穿高跟鞋会疼,却仍要穿,希望通过这种疼来证明自己还活着;2.不能服输:离婚可能意味着失败,尤其是有第三者入侵的婚姻,咽不下这口气;3.觉得自己不值得被温柔对待:认为自己很糟糕,没什么人会爱,如果离婚会更糟糕;4.不相信自己的能力:不相信离婚后自己能过好,不相信自己有面对困难的能力;5.不能分离:离婚意味着分离,有些人不能忍受,一类是与父母共生的人,认为分离就是背叛
Small wedding said: a small wedding home made an article entitled “how many marriages are not good, can not live - this is the truth many people trapped in the unfortunate,” aroused a lot of people’s sympathy. The author believes that many people can not live without marriage, there are six main reasons, namely: 1. Addicted to the pain: knowing that wearing high heels will hurt, but still wear, hoping to prove that they are still alive by this pain; May mean failure, especially the invasion of a third party marriage, swallow this tone; 3. feel that they do not deserve to be gentle: that they are terrible, no one will love, if the divorce will be worse; 4. do not believe Their ability: do not believe that after divorce, they can be good, do not believe they have the ability to face difficulties; 5 can not be separated: divorce means separation, some people can not stand, one is symbiotic with their parents that the separation is betray