孔子说:“有朋自远方来,不亦乐乎。”歪批:圣人发话了,有异性朋友从远方来,一定要乐,不单乐于陪吃陪喝陪玩,还要乐于表白心迹,敢于表白心迹。孟子说:“鱼,我所欲也,熊掌,亦我所欲也;二者不可得兼,舍鱼而取熊掌者也。”歪批:孟夫子给咱指了条康庄大道,身为一伟大光棍一定要有气节,要熊掌不要鱼,为啥呢?熊掌比鱼丰满嘛。荀子说:“锲而舍之,朽木不折;锲而不舍,金石可镂。” Confucius said: “crooked batch: Saints made a speech, the opposite sex friends from afar, we must be happy, not only happy to accompany accompany to drink to accompany play, but also happy to express their feelings, Dare to confession. Mencius said: ”The fish, I want, bear’s paw, also I want; both can not be obtained, As a great bachelor must have integrity, do not bear fish, why? Xunzi said: “Persevere, rotten wood does not break; perseverance, stone can Lou.”