有天办公室几位同事闲聊,说到某某明星发福了,胖得有些难看。同事小云走进来,听见了个尾巴。她认为大家之前是在议论自己,那几天情绪一直不好。后来我观察发现,生活里很多人听到负面评价,不管是不是在说他,都爱往自己身上靠。这是为什么呢?晶晶 There are several colleagues in the office chatting a few days, when it comes to a certain star fat, fat is a little ugly. Colleagues Xiaoyun came in, I heard a tail. She thinks everyone was talking about himself before, and his emotions have not been good in those days. Later on, I observed that many people in life hear negative comments, whether they are talking about him or not, and they all love themselves. This is why? Jingjing