赞美别人和接受别人的赞美都是非常平常,而且是非常正常的事情。与中国文化不同的是,英美人在听到别人赞美时,通常用“Thank you”来回答。比如,别人说你的衣服很漂亮,你就应该说“Thank you”,而不是我们中国人常说的“哪里哪里”或“一般一般”,通过“自贬”来达到谦虚的目的 Praise and acceptance of others praise are very common, and very normal thing. Different from Chinese culture, English and American people usually reply with “Thank you” when they hear others’ praise. For example, when people say your clothes are beautiful, you should say “Thank you,” not the “where” or “generality” that we Chinese often say, and the modest goal of self-deprecation