父母亲戚对单身青年的焦虑反映了整个社会的焦虑,不独中国,日本人也如此。日本NHK电视台“特别节目录制组”整理出版的《无缘社会》一书,反映的即为“单身是奔向‘无缘死'的直通车”。什么叫“无缘死”?就是死时无人发现、死后无人接收遗骨的那种死亡。中国和日本都把单身当作社会顽疾加以对待,换而言之,这是一种需要加以克服的负能量,不应姑息和纵容。但事实果真如 The anxiety of parents and relatives toward single youth reflects the anxiety of the entire society, not only in China but also in Japan. Japan NHK television “special program recording group ” finishing the publication of “out of society” book, reflecting the is “single is toward the” no death through the train “. What is ”no death "? Is no one died at death, no one died after receiving the kind of death. Both China and Japan treat singles as social stubbornness. In other words, this is a negative energy that needs to be overcome and should not be tolerated or condoned. But the truth is true