编辑同志: 我家宝宝在奶奶的眼里什么都好,就是外出时不讲卫生。因为我们家非常干净,宝宝想躺在哪里就可躺在哪里,想坐在哪里就可以坐在哪里,想玩什么(除了危险物品)也不会有人限制他。可是宝宝只要和奶奶一起出门,外面的大部分东西都会被奶奶认定为“脏”“有虫虫,会咬人”。而宝宝却对什么都有兴趣,看到什么都想摸一摸,有时甚至还会追着老鼠跑。每当此时,奶奶就会怪我这个当妈的不去管管。说句实话,孩子的这些做法,我没感到有什么不好,倒是如果什么都不让孩子碰,孩子就会少了不少乐趣,也会扼杀孩子的想像力。请教专家,我究竟该怎样处理这种矛盾? 山西太原王秀珍 Edit comrades: my baby in my grandmother’s eyes what is good, that is, do not talk about hygiene when going out. Because our family is very clean, where the baby wants to lie while lying, where to sit where you want to sit and what you want to play (except for dangerous items), no one will limit him. But as long as the baby and grandma out together, most of the things outside will be grandma identified as “dirty” “there are bugs, will bite.” But the baby is interested in everything, see what they want to touch, sometimes even chasing the mouse to run. Whenever this time, my grandma will blame me when the mother is not in charge. To tell the truth, these children’s practices, I did not feel any bad, but added that if nothing to touch the child, the child will be less of a lot of fun, but also stifle the child’s imagination. Consult experts, I exactly how to deal with this contradiction? Shanxi Taiyuan Wang Xiuzhen