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无论是个人或是团体之间的交流与沟通,时刻都充斥着一方试图影响另一方的氛围。很难想象如果_个社会里的所有舆论都是不偏不倚的会是什么样。如果我相信某样东西对你有利,我会竭力劝说你“这样”做,而不要“那样”做;而且我也相信如果我没能说服你,某些并不真正关心你的人就会趁势跳出来对你大放厥词。不管你乐意与否,身处当今社会你必须得学会影响和改变他人的所作所为——否则你就得退位让贤。要说服别人,你必须深谙其中诀窍,要掌握诀窍,你必须对其知之甚祥。
Whether it be for personal or group communication and communication, moments are filled with the atmosphere of one party trying to influence the other. It is hard to imagine what would happen if all the public opinion in a society were impartial. If I believe something is good for you, I will try my best to persuade you to “do it this way,” not “do it that way.” And I also believe that if I fail to convince you, some people who do not really care about you will take advantage of it Jump out and talk nonsense to you. Whether you are happy or not, in today's society you have to learn what you can do to influence and change others - or you have to retire. To convince others, you must know the trick, you have to know the trick, you have to know it very auspicious.