父亲和我说话时,总会先说:“今天我说过我是多么地爱你了吗?”这种爱的表示得到了回报:在他晚年,当他的生命力明显减弱时,我们变得更加亲密了……如果那还可能的话。82岁时,父亲已在弥留之际,我做好了他离去的准备,好让他的痛苦能够终止。我们有笑有哭,牵着彼此的手,互诉彼此是多么地爱对方。我和父亲一致认为,我们到了分手的时 When my father spoke to me, he would always say: “How did I love you today when I said that?” This expression of love paid off: in his old age, when his vitality weakened significantly, we Become more intimate... if that is still possible. At the age of 82, when my father was already on his deathbed, I was prepared to leave him so that his pain could end. We laugh and cry, hold each other’s hands, and how we love each other when we talk to each other. My father and I agreed that when we broke up,