我高考落榜后,有人来说亲,姑娘是邻村的。我虽然和她不熟,但我见过她,是汉藏混血儿,非常漂亮。母亲替我拒绝了,说,他还小,不准备娶亲。这事儿我是在两三年后才知道的。母亲觉得我应该有更大出息。当我对她说准备当兵时,她很支持。她一直坚信我不是当农民的命。母亲很不容易,她完全可以要求我留下来。父亲1983年去世,那年三姐正在上五年级,只好辍学帮助母亲一起供养其余五个兄弟姐妹读书。三姐成绩是班里第一名,还是班长。班主 After I took the exam, some people say that the girl is a neighbor. Although I was unfamiliar with her, but I have seen her, is a mixed half-breed, very beautiful. My mother refused for me, saying he was still young and was not ready to marry. I know it after two or three years. My mother thinks I should have more good news. She was very supportive when I said she was ready to be a soldier. She always believed I was not a peasant’s life. Mother is not easy, she can ask me to stay. His father died in 1983, when her third sister was in her fifth grade and had to drop out of school to help her mother with the other five siblings. Third sister achievement is the first class, or squad leader. Master