“您好,过得怎么样?”“不好啊,一点儿意思也没有。”“您还有什么不顺心的?”“您知道,有的是操心事啊。”我们怎么也不爱说,“过得相当不错”或者“还行”或者“本该更坏一些”之类的话。我们知道,亲友们并不是为哀悼什么才来问候的,我们也不认为自己丧气的答话会使他们感动。我们这样答话,也许是因为我们对亲友怀有一种天生的戒备心,所以,宁可把命运说得差一点,好让他们别向我们借钱什 “” “” “” “” Not good, there is no meaning. “” What else you do not like? “” You know, some are worried about things. “ If we do not like to say, ”Pretty good“ or ”ok“ or ”should be worse" or something like that. We know that relatives and friends did not greet for what they were doing, and we do not think they would be touched by their reproached reply. Perhaps we are answerers because we cherish a natural heart for our relatives and friends. Therefore, we would rather say a fate fare so that they should not borrow money from us