我的孩子原来比较胆小,什么都不敢和人家比。小朋友比赛骑车,他虽然也骑着小自行车,却怎么也不肯加入进去,只在一旁给别人加油。于是,我和爱人决定在家里多和孩子玩一些有竞争性的游戏,如下棋、比赛穿脱衣服等,并且总是故意输给儿子。每当儿子扬着小脸、拍着小巴掌笑嚷着:“噢,我赢了,我得了第一名” My child was timid and I did not dare to compare with others. Children race cycling, although he is riding a small bike, but how refused to join in, just to cheer others. As a result, my wife and I decided to play more competitive games with our children at home, such as playing chess, wearing clothes and so on, and always losing them to my son. Whenever my son raised a small face, patted the slap in the face: “Oh, I won, I got the first name ”