我们是一个有着“大一统”传统的民族,我们有太多的禁忌,也有太多的规范。我们有“克己复礼”“杀身成仁”的古训,我们有“鞠躬尽瘁,死而后已”的典范,我们有“非礼勿视,非礼勿听,非礼勿言,非礼勿动”的戒律;我们有四书五经,我们有八股文,我们有清一色的蓝布中山装,我们有全国上下一句话的过去……我们的模式太多太多。先人在条条框框中生活。那些条条框框,固然是引导民族走向的岸,但也是压迫生命的山,是人们付出了鲜血和生命的山。焦仲卿自挂东南枝,陆游也只能惋叹“一怀愁绪,几年离 We are a nation with a ”grand unity“ tradition. We have too many taboos and too many norms. We have the old example of ”self-denial“, ”killing ourselves“, and we have a model of ”doing our utmost to death and then“. We have ” We have four books and five scriptures, we have all kinds of blue cloth tunic, we have the whole sentence of the past ... ... our model too much. Ancestors living in the framework of the rules. Those rules and regulations, of course, is to guide the nation to the shore, but also the oppression of life of the mountains, people pay the blood and life of the mountain. Jiao Zhongqing hanging Southeast Branch, Lu You can only sigh "a nostalgia, a few years away