所谓家庭教育的一致,是指家庭全体成员对家庭中的教育对象的教育目的一致,方法正确,有利于孩子的身心健康成长。时下,家庭内部对孩子教育也很不一致:爸爸要严管,母亲要溺爱;父母严教,爷爷、奶奶要娇惯。这样做使孩子无所适从,有的孩子学会了钻空子,甚至制造矛盾,谁最溺爱自己, The so-called family education is the same, refers to all family members of the family education target education purposes, the correct method is conducive to the child’s physical and mental health growth. Nowadays, the education within families is also very inconsistent with children’s education: father should be strict with his mother and mother should be spoiled; parents must teach hard, grandfather and grandmother should be spoiled. Doing so makes children know what to do, some children learn to loopholes, and even create conflicts, who most indulge themselves,