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美国曾对733位拥有数百万美元的富翁做过一次调查,结果显示,对他们的成功起作用的前几位因素均为“诚实地对待所有的人”、“严格地遵守纪律”以及“与人友好相处”等属于情商范畴的因素。当问起我国一些优秀企业的老总,认为“当代大学毕业生最缺乏什么”时,他们的答案惊人地一致:缺乏情商。目前,大多数家长普遍关心孩子的智商和学习,而忽视情商的培养,结果导致情商低的孩子越来越多。在如今的家长眼里,真正德智体全面发展的“90后”实属少见。究其原因,其实还是在于,现在诸多的家长在家庭教育中往往只重智商而忽视情商的培养,结果导致情商低的孩子越来越多。为此,不少心理教育专家一针见血地指出,“90后”的低情商是家长们给“训练”出来的。
The United States once conducted a survey of 733 millionaires with millions of dollars and found that the first few factors that worked for their success were “treating everyone honestly” and “strictly observing discipline ”And “ friendly with people ”and other factors belong to the category of emotional intelligence. When asked about the CEOs of some of China’s best companies, they think the answers to the question “What most contemporary college graduates lack are often surprisingly consistent: the lack of emotional intelligence. At present, most parents are generally concerned about children’s IQ and learning, while ignoring the cultivation of emotional intelligence, resulting in more and more children with low emotional intelligence. In the eyes of today’s parents, the real development of moral, physical and mental ”90 “ is rare. The reason is, in fact, still lies in the fact that many parents in family education now tend to focus only on IQ but ignore the cultivation of EQ, resulting in more and more children with low EQ. To this end, many psycho-educational experts have pointed out sharply that the ”EQ“ after ”90s“ is that parents give ”training" out.