·行事有主见,有原则,不以别人的喜恶作为自己行事的标准; ·承认人性中有光明的一面和黑暗的一面,并有容忍和谅解的胸襟; ·能够接受对方,包括一切优点和缺点,懂得如何与对方相处; ·充分明白“人必先自爱而后人爱之;人必先自助而后人助之”的道理; • act in accordance with principles and principles that do not regard the likes and dislikes of others as the standard of action; • recognize the bright and dark sides of humanity and have a tolerant and understanding mind; • be able to accept each other, including all advantages and Shortcomings, know how to get along with each other; · fully understand the “people must first love and then love; people must help themselves and help others” truth;