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其实我的问题是一种进攻型的防守。我知道大多数人不到30就结婚了,于是像我这样快30岁了还是孑然一身就成了人们关注的对象。其实我想,你关注点什么不好,比如你自己快乐不快乐,钱挣得够不够多,老婆孩子是不是挺好,你的上司是不是关心你的成长,单位精减时你有没有危险,反正让你操心的事肯定不少,为何看着我不结婚发愁呢?我知道有一点是肯定的,那就是结不结婚不是成功与否的表现,那么我不急,你急什么? 30岁不结婚是不是已经成了一种现象我不知道,就算是吧,那我也来分析分析是什么原因。可是想来想去,真的想不清楚。是生活压力太大?现在的人没有
In fact, my problem is an offensive type of defense. I know that most people get married in less than 30, so being 30 or so fast has become a concern. In fact, I think, you are concerned about what is not good, such as your own happiness is not happy enough money earned enough, the wife and children is not very good, your boss is not concerned about your growth, the reduction unit when you have no danger , Anyway, a lot of things that make you worry about, why do I look at me do not get married to worry about it? I know one thing is for sure, that is not married or not successful performance, then I am in no hurry, what are you anxious? Is not the age of marriage is not a phenomenon has become a phenomenon I do not know, even if it is, then I also analyze what is the reason. But want to go, really do not think clearly. Is life stress too high?