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在宁波民间除了家庭亲、联姻亲以外,还有一种特殊之亲,叫作“过房亲”。“过房亲”就是在民间“交情友谊亲密者,以子女互相寄名”。“过房亲”在宁波有两种情况:一种是因为结婚多年没有生育过子女或生育以后怕夭折,就认一个过房儿子或者是过房女儿;另一种是担心自己的儿子或女儿身单势薄,将自己的儿子或女儿过房给兴旺之家,有一个依靠照应。这两种情况,属第一种的过房比较多。过房儿子和过房女儿都称过房爹、过房娘为“寄爹”“寄妈”。过房爹和过房娘每年都得做一套新衣服赠送给年龄尚幼的过房儿子
In addition to private family in Ningbo, relatives, marriage, there is a special kind of dear, called “Room kiss ” is in the private “friendship and friendship intimate persons, send their children to each other ”. There are two cases in Ningbo: one is because married for many years without childbirth after childbirth or childbirth afraid to die, to recognize a passing room son or a house daughter; the other is worried about his son Or the daughter of a thin body, his son or daughter over the room to the prosperous home, there is a dependence on care. In both cases, there is more room for the first one. Over the room son and over the room daughter said the father, room wife as “father ” “mother ”. House and house wife each year have to do a new set of clothes presented to young children too late son