现代家庭教育有很多缺失,其中最大的缺失就是亲子之间的交流和沟通。这种缺失更多地体现在上个世纪90年代末和本世纪初。一方面,由于当时社会经济水平不高,人还处于奋力生存阶段,便无可避免地忽视与孩子的沟通及对其的家庭教育;另外一方面,当时的教育不发达,且心理教育也完全没有进入人们的视野,而即使进入也没有引起更多人的重视。正是由于这两方面的因素,导致很多人忽视了亲子教育。在大量失败的家庭教育案例面前,学校、家长和社会才开始关注 There are many deficiencies in modern family education. The biggest one is the communication and communication between parents and children. This deficiency is more reflected in the late 1990s and early 2000s. On the one hand, due to the low social and economic level at that time, people were still struggling to survive. They inevitably ignored the communication with their children and their family education. On the other hand, education was underdeveloped and psychological education completely Did not enter the people’s vision, but even if entered did not attract more people’s attention. It is precisely because of these two factors, leading many people to ignore parenting education. In the face of a large number of failed family education cases, schools, parents and the community began to pay attention