我国现行民事诉讼法在当事人合意解决纠纷的制度上,存在着两种选择:和解和调解。在法律规定的数量上,调解的份量明显重于和解;在司法实践中,法院也大都重调解而轻当事人自行和解。和解不被重视的原因是因为和解制度的不完善,当事人 The current civil procedure law in our country has two choices in the system that the parties are willing to settle the dispute: reconciliation and mediation. In terms of the quantity prescribed by law, the weight of conciliation is obviously heavier than that of reconciliation; in judicial practice, the courts also mostly reconcile the conciliation and the lighter parties settle themselves. The reason why reconciliation is not taken seriously is because the system of reconciliation is imperfect and the parties involved