有个老邻居,他的儿子毕业于国内一所名牌大学,后来又远渡重洋到英国读研。老邻居是个虚荣心极强的人,恨不得全世界都知道他的儿子有多优秀,我们彼此多年未见,自然会互问起儿女的情况,他便借机向我炫耀了一番。几天后,在街头再次巧遇,老邻居的话题仍离不开他那优秀的儿子,但我印象中已记不起这档子事,他对我的反应颇感不快,悻悻离去。老邻居可能没想明白一个道理:普通人是不必在意他人的感受和评判的,因为根本没人注意你。 An old neighbor, his son graduated from a famous university in China, and later traveled across the ocean to study in the UK. The old neighbor is a man of great vanity. I can not wait to know how good his son is all over the world. Since we have not seen each other for years, we naturally ask each other about our children. He took the opportunity to show off to me. A few days later, again in the streets, the topic of the old neighbors is still inseparable from his excellent son, but I can not remember this thing in my mind. He was quite unhappy with my reaction and left with displeasure. Old neighbors may not want to understand the truth: ordinary people do not have to care about the feelings and judgments of others, because no one paid attention to you at all.