每当我想起表弟于明哲的时候,我便会感到从前曾笃信不疑的“生活是公平的”这句所谓格言是多么地荒谬。细细想来,生活何曾有过公平?公平不过是志得意满之人在酒足饭饱之后随意的一声感喟。从此我对报刊上一些思想教育之类的大话空话嗤嗤一鼻。那些言之无物的八股文章恐怕连作者本人也感到滑稽。这些认识轻而易举地推翻了我三十年来恪守的许多人生信条,我变得越来越不耐烦那些不绝于耳的人生说教。我感到,生活就是生活,它既不浪漫,又不魔幻,而是实实在在。生活的信条只能靠自己去体察感悟,别人是不能越殂代庖的。只有自己悟出的道理才能刻骨铭心。等你悟透了生活,你也就变成了半个哲学家。一表弟于明哲是我大舅的第三个儿子。我大舅一辈 Whenever I think of cousin Yu Mingzhe, I feel the absurdity of the so-called aphorism that “life is fair,” which we once believed. Think carefully, there had been fair life? Fairness is just that people who aspired to feel free to drink after feeling full. From then on, I was scoffing at some nonsense such as ideological education in newspapers and periodicals. The eight-essay essays I am afraid are even funny to the author himself. These acquaintances easily overrun many of the creeds of life that I have abidered for thirty years and I am becoming increasingly impatient with the persistence of preaching. I feel that life is life, it is neither romantic nor fantastic, but real. Live creed can only rely on their own perceptions, others can not be the older generation. Only by realizing their own truth can unforgettable. When you realize life, you become half a philosopher. A cousin Yu Mingzhe is my uncle’s third son. My uncle a generation