父母要注意培养孩子对快乐的体验。在每一件小事上,父母都可以询问孩子的感觉,高兴不高兴,为什么?比如出去玩的时候问孩子:“你喜欢出来玩吗?高兴吗?”还可以问:“你跟妈妈在一起高兴吗?”父母也要经常把自己的体验告诉孩子,如“你能自己穿衣服,我很高兴。”要尊重孩子的意愿。有些事情大人觉得没意思,孩子却很喜欢;大人认为孩子会喜欢的东西,小孩得到了却并不高兴。有的父母给孩子买很贵的玩具,孩子却宁愿玩水、玩泥巴、提迷藏、过家家。所以,我们不要总把自己的好恶强加给孩子,要让孩子做 Parents should pay attention to cultivate children’s happy experience. In each trivial matter, parents can ask the child’s feelings, happy, why? For example, when going out to play and asked the child: “Do you like to play it? Happy?” You can also ask: “You and mom together Pleased? ”Parents also often tell their children experience, such as“ you can wear your own clothes, I am happy. ”To respect the child’s wishes. Some things adults feel boring, children really like; adults think children will like things, children are not happy. Some parents to buy expensive toys for their children, children would rather play in the water, play in the mud, to hide and seek, every family. So, we do not always impose their own likes and dislikes on children, let the children do