很多人认为孩子是自己生的,让孩子按自己的意愿做事,自己没干成的事(考大学、搞音乐、学手艺等),让孩子去完成。孩子若不听,对孩子非打即骂。不管什么场合,随心所欲。中国有句古话:孩子不打不成器。为此很多人信奉棍棒底下出孝子。嫂子就是一个典型的例子。侄儿虎从小顽皮,她常常打骂他,什么笨猪、淘气包算是好听的,更有甚者 Many people think that children are born by themselves, let the children do things according to their own wishes, and do what they themselves did not do (test college, engage in music, study skills, etc.) and let the children complete it. If children do not listen, non-playing or scolding children. No matter what the occasion, arbitrary. There is an old saying in China: Children can not fight no devices. To this end, many people believe sticks under the dutiful son. Sister-in-law is a typical example. Nephew tiger childhood naughty, she often beat him, what stupid, naughty package is good, what is more