有个女作家来找我,说她遇到人生难题,有两个条件不相上下的男孩追求她,让她难以取舍,问我如何是好。我说这好办,你去调查,谁最孝敬老人,你就选择谁,肯定没错。有人说上帝忙不过来,就创造了母亲,对我们来说,母亲就是我们的上帝,她的身上蕴含着上帝的情感和品质。想想看,一个连母亲都不爱的人,怎么可能爱你一生?一个连自己父母都不孝敬的人,怎么会爱你一辈子? A woman writer came to me and said that she encountered a difficult life problem. There are two boys who pursue similar qualities to pursue her, making her hard to choose and asking me how to do well. I said it easy to handle, you go to investigate, who most honor the elderly, you choose who, yes, yes. Some people say that when God is too busy to create a mother, for us, the mother is our God, and her body contains God's feelings and qualities. Think about it, a man who does not love his mother, how could you love your life? Even a person who does not honor their parents, how will love you forever?