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来自父母的体罚和语言否定、父母关系不和睦都是孩子成长过程中的灰色记忆。在所有的家庭伤害中,居于首位的是让孩子产生被抛弃的恐惧感,这种想法会导致孩子自卑、绝望,进而通过自残等自我攻击的方式释放压力,以此表达对父母的愤怒。一项调查显示:四成中学生有轻度心理问题,对孩子的伤害80%是来自于家庭而不是社会。一个问题孩子的背后,一定是一个问题家庭。调查发现,父母对孩子常见的伤害有责骂、冷落、强迫、情
Corporal punishment and language denial from parents, and parental discord are all gray memories of children’s growth. Among all the family injuries, giving birth to the fear of abandonment of their children leads to the inferiority, despair of children and the pressure of self-attack such as self-mutilation to express their anger toward their parents. According to a survey, 40% of middle school students have mild psychological problems, and 80% of their children’s injuries come from families rather than from the society. Behind a problem a child must be a problem family. The survey found that parents are responsible for the child’s common injury scolding, neglect, coercion, love