日常的咨询过程中,咨询师和来访者身上都可能出现这种情况:他们总会比约定的时间晚到一会儿,有时是一两分钟,有时是十几分钟或者更长时间。对于这种情况,咨询师如果没有引起足够的关注,咨询效果势必受到影响。反之,如果咨询师敏锐地觉察到了这一问题,并且对其原因进行探索,给予适当的处理,则会有助于整个问题的解决。 This can happen to counselors and visitors during the routine counseling: they are always later than the agreed time, sometimes a minute or two, and sometimes a dozen or more minutes. In this case, if the consultant did not attract enough attention, the consultation effect is bound to be affected. Conversely, if the consultant is acutely aware of the problem and explores the cause and gives the appropriate treatment, it will help solve the problem as a whole.