问:我的儿子今年5 岁,是个非常可爱的男孩,长得秀气,脾气也好,很讨人喜欢。但作为他的妈妈,我却高兴不起来,因为我觉得他不像个小男子汉。他性格温和,但过于内敛,他不喜欢(更确切地说是怕)与他人发生争斗,遇到有争斗的场面就躲避、退缩。平时喜欢看一些温情的卡通片,不喜欢那些离别、伤害的场景,更不要说血腥的打斗场面了。我觉得一个男孩子这样很不好,一个未来的男子汉应当坚强、硬气,不应这样多愁善感。我试过 Q: My son is 5 years old this year, is a very cute boy, looks delicate, temper, very lovable. But as his mom, I was not happy, because I think he is not like a young man. He was gentle, but overly introverted. He did not like (more precisely, feared) fighting with others and shunned and retreated in the face of contested situations. Usually like to see some warmth of the cartoon, do not like those who parted, hurt scenes, not to mention the bloody fighting scenes. I think a boy so bad, a future man should be strong, hard-hearted, should not be so sentimental. I tried