有一天,上初三的儿子在学校和同学发生冲突,受到了老师的批评,他觉得责任不在自己,而且老师批评得过火,因而感到委屈,和老师生了气。回到家里,他向我倾诉所受的委屈,我听着发觉是他不对,想批评他,可自己正在病中,嗓子肿得说不出话来,只张了张嘴,什么也没说。孩子认 One day, on the third day of the third son’s clashes with his classmates and students, he was criticized by the teacher. He felt his responsibility was beyond himself. The teacher criticized him as over-heated and felt grieved and angry with the teacher. When he got back home, he told me the grievances he suffered. I found he was wrong, and he wanted to criticize him. He was in the midst of illness, his voice was swollen, he could not speak, he just opened his mouth and said nothing. Children recognize