自我认识失实、自我体验失衡、自我调节失控是儿童自我意识发展中的最主要问题。那么,如何促使儿童拥有一种良好的自我意识呢?1.鼓励儿童参与各种活动,多与同龄伙伴交往。在与同伴的交往过程中,儿童必须放弃“自我中心”,站在他人角度思考问题,关心理解他人的心情;他们必须学会 Self-awareness is not true, imbalance of self-experience, loss of self-regulation is the most important issue in children’s self-awareness. So, how to promote children have a good sense of self? 1. Encourage children to participate in various activities, more interaction with their peers. In their interactions with their peers, children must abandon “egocentricity”, think from other people’s perspectives and be concerned with understanding others’ feelings; they must learn