最近,一对年轻夫妇来到心理咨询门诊,咨询有关早泄的问题。这对小夫妻刚刚结婚不到两个月,男方主诉每当自己生殖器刚插入妻子阴道就射精了,有时甚至刚碰到妻子身体就射出精液。为此,妻子责怪丈夫无用,丈夫越发紧张,没有一次不早泄。其实,新婚期间新郎发生早泄,乃至于阳痿的现象是比较普遍的。究其原因主要是紧张造成的。试想想,一个男性,过去从未接触过女性的身体敏感部位,一旦刚开始接触,兴奋状况可想而知。大凡没有婚前性行为的新郎在新婚之夜或新婚阶段都有个适应过程。过度的性兴奋、性紧张都 Recently, a young couple came to a counseling clinic to ask questions about premature ejaculation. The couple was married less than two months ago. The man complained of getting ejaculated whenever his genitals were inserted into his wife’s vagina, sometimes even just touching his wife’s body. To this end, the wife blame her husband useless, her husband more and more nervous, no one does not premature ejaculation. In fact, the groom premature ejaculation during the wedding, and even impotence phenomenon is more common. The reason is mainly caused by tension. Imagine a man who had never touched sensitive parts of a woman’s body before. Grooms who generally have no premarital sex have an adaptation process on the wedding night or in the wedding stage. Excessive sexual excitement, sexual tension are