编辑同志:我有个男孩今年2岁。他7个月时被狗惊吓以后就变得胆小了。他很少说话,怕见生人,受不得半点委屈。每当我看到孩子见到生人时的惊恐的眼睛和发呆的表情,心里就不是滋味。我怎样做才能改变孩子的不良心理状态呢?余一佘一同志:由于你的粗心,让孩子很小时受到惊吓,的确是件憾事。因为婴儿的神经系统发育尚未成熟,很脆弱,过份的刺激会使之难以承受。不过,请你不必过虑,如果孩子除胆子小些外,其他方面的精神发育基本正常,只要教育得法,处理得当,也不会造成什么了不起的大问题。因为在整个学前期儿童的个性性格还处于开始形成的时期,有极大的可塑性。其实,1、2岁的娃娃依恋父母,怕他们离开,认生等都是常见的现象,是合乎年龄特点的一种表现,因为他们需要安 Editor’s Comrade: I have a boy 2 years old this year. He became timid after being scared by dogs for 7 months. He rarely speaks, afraid to see strangers, subject to the slightest bitterness. Every time I see the child’s horrified eyes and daze expression when he sees a stranger, my heart is not tasteful. How can I change my child’s bad psychological state? Yu Yi She Yi comrades: Due to your carelessness, so that children were frightened for an hour, it is indeed a pity. Because the infant’s nervous system is immature and vulnerable, over-stimulation can be unaffordable. However, you do not have to worry too much about it. If your child is brave but has less courage, other aspects of spiritual development are basically normal. As long as they are educated and properly handled, they will not cause any great big problems. Because in the pre-school children’s personality is still in the beginning of the formation of a period of great plasticity. In fact, 1,2-year-old doll attachment to parents, fear that they leave, students are all common phenomenon, is a manifestation of age characteristics, because they need security