美国学者韦辛克和罗森斯在《批评与人生》一书中,专门研究了自我批评。他们的研究有一个重要的特点,就是注重揭示自我批评与人的自尊和自信之间的关系。他们认为,在自我批评中,批评与接受批评的是同一个人,自己既是批评者也是被批评者。因此,一方面自我批评在人生中具有重要的意义,是帮助人们自我评估自己言行的重要方法,也是建立完整人格的重要途径和自我完善的积极动力,而且,自我批评的力量要比外来批评的力量大得多;但另一方面,这样的批评者也往往是从最苛刻的角度对自己进行批评,并往往想事情的结果向最坏处想,大多数人愿意宽恕别人的错误,但很多人却不能宽恕自己的错误。所以,处理不当,自我批评就 American scholar Winkink and Rosens in “Criticism and Life” in a book, specializing in self-criticism. An important feature of their research is the emphasis on revealing the relationship between self-criticism and human self-esteem and self-esteem. They think that in self-criticism, criticism is the same person as criticism and criticism as well as criticism. Therefore, on the one hand, self-criticism is of great significance in life and is an important method to help people evaluate themselves and their own conduct. It is also an important way to establish complete personality and a positive motivation for self-improvement. Moreover, self-criticism is stronger than external criticism On the other hand, such critics tend to criticize themselves from the most demanding point of view and tend to think of the result as the worst. Most people are willing to forgive others for their mistakes, but many people But can not forgive their own mistakes. Therefore, improper handling, self-criticism