有时候通往快乐的途径更取决于你不做什么。快乐——在你的商业生活和个人生活中——通常是减法而不是加法。例如考虑一下当你停止做以下十件事情的时候,将会发生什么事情:1.责备人们犯错误。员工们不符合你的预期。供应商不按时交货。所以你因为你的问题责备他们。但是你也应该受到责备。或许你没有为他们提供足够的培训。或许你没有在足够的缓冲区建立预期。或者你要求得太多太快。当事情出错的时候要承担责任而不是责备他人,这种做法并不是自讨苦吃而是授权——因为这样下次你会专注 Sometimes the way to happiness depends more on what you do not do. Happiness - in your business and personal life - is usually subtractive rather than additive. For example, consider what happens when you stop doing the following ten things: 1. Blame people for making mistakes. The staff did not meet your expectations. Supplier does not deliver on time. So you blame them for your question. But you should be blamed too. Maybe you did not provide them with enough training. Perhaps you do not have the expectation in enough buffers. Or you ask too much too fast. It’s not self-criticism but empowerment to take responsibility rather than blame others when things go wrong - because next time you’re focused