Q我的孩子今年4岁半,在没有外人或觉得没有人的情况下,唱歌、跳舞等都表现得非常出色。但在有人或有外人在的时候。就不好意思,让唱歌、跳舞就不做,或唱一句、跳一下就完了。请问专家,如何能帮助孩子有所改变?A孩子不爱在生人面前表演,是由于害羞,有五分之一的孩子的害羞是先天的,或称之大与生俱来的,这类害羞的孩子长大也会成为友好的、有自信的人。要想改变孩子这种害羞的行为,愿意在生人面前表演,可以这样做:1接受他有害羞毛病的事实。四岁半的孩子是一个有主意的独立的个体,他完全可以不按你的愿望行事。不要因为他没有听你的话而发火,否则他会更退缩, Q My child is 4 and a half years old, singing and dancing without outsider or no one else. But when someone or outsiders are there. I am sorry, let singing, dancing is not done, or sing one, jump about finished. May I ask experts, how to help children change? A child does not love to show in front of strangers, is shy, one in five children’s shyness is innate, or called born, this type Shy children grow up to be friendly and confident people. To change the shy behavior of a child and be willing to perform in front of a living person, do the following: 1 Accept the fact that he is timid. A four and a half year old child is an independent and independent individual who can not act according to your wishes. Do not get angry because he did not listen to you, or he will be more withdrawn,