在传统的男权社会中,即使有些女性意识到了自己的性权利,也无法真正地获得它和坚持它,女性至多只能消极被动地防守,设法不让大男子主义者损害自己最起码的性方面的安全。例如,面对丈夫不适当的性要求,传统女性至多只有这样几种防护办法:一是逃避,但又很少敢于分床或分居,只得借口有病、来例假、怕惊动孩子,甚至故意吃大蒜、不洗澡来打消丈夫的念头;二是试图用温情或爱情来感化丈夫,在家务和生活上加倍体贴他,以此来换取他在性生活中 In the traditional patriarchal society, even though some women are aware of their own sexual rights, they can not really obtain it and insist on it. Women, at best, can only passively and passively defend themselves in an attempt to prevent the machismo from harming their minimum sexuality Aspects of safety. For example, in the face of inappropriate husbands sexual demands, traditional women have at least the following kinds of protective measures: First, they evade, but seldom dare to separate or separate. They have to excuse sickness, leave on holidays, fear of disturbing their children and even deliberately eating Garlic, do not bath to discourage her husband’s idea; the second is trying to use warmth or love to influence her husband, in the housework and life more considerate of him, in exchange for his sexual life