老公总说等“条件成熟了”再要孩子,可我问他什么是条件成熟,他说不知道,只知道现在不适合。他是在回避吗?可我却不想再这么拖下去了。你先对照看看,然后再想如何对症沟通。1.最常见的是担心经济上的不足。有的男人会认为自己养家的责任比较大,不如先无负担地奋斗,为将来孩子的到来打下坚实的物质基础。2.自己还没玩够,还没长大成熟,没做好当爸爸的准备,害怕伴随着孩子而来的巨大责任感、约束感。 Husband always said “Mature conditions ” And then to children, but I asked him what is the conditions are ripe, he said do not know, only know now is not suitable. Is he avoiding it? But I do not want to drag it anymore. You look at the control first, and then think about how symptomatic communication. 1. The most common is to worry about the economic deficiencies. Some men may think that they are more responsible for raising their own families. They should first strive without any burden and lay a solid material foundation for the future arrival of their children. 2. I have not played enough, not mature, did not do when the father’s preparation, fear of coming along with the child’s great responsibility, a sense of restraint.