有人说,感情生活对男性而言,是生命的一部分,而对女性则几乎是生命的全部。一代又一代的女性都在渴望获得一个温暖、幸福的家庭。但是,在漫漫的历史长河中,社会给予女性自由选择的机会实在是太少了,随着社会的发展,选择的机会渐渐地归还了女人。在我国,帝制的解体不到百年,女人能自由地选择婚姻,确属历史的进步。当然,严格地说,这选择中所包含的自由度也受到了某种局限,受到有意或无意的历史、文化、心理等社会积淀的制约。 Some people say that the emotional life for men, is part of life, while women are almost all of life. Generation after generation of women are eager to get a warm, happy family. However, in the long course of history, there are too few social opportunities for women to freely choose women. With the development of society, opportunities for choice have gradually returned women. In our country, less than a century after the dissolution of the imperialism, women are free to choose marriage, is indeed a historical progress. Of course, strictly speaking, the degree of freedom contained in this choice has also been somewhat limited by the accumulation of history, culture and psychology, intentionally or unintentionally.