别笑，夫妻间的“吹捧”实在是应当经常做一做的功课。因为这样的吹捧，实际上是一种制造甜蜜的艺术。美国人富裕，吃饱了喝足了就爱琢磨些“闲事”。华盛顿大学的心理学家翰·戈特曼教授对人家两口子间的事就特别有兴趣，不惜为此进行了长达２０多年的研究，还真寻思出了一些 Do not laugh, the “touted” between husband and wife is really a homework that should be done often. Because of this touted, in fact, is to create a sweet art. Americans rich, fed enough to ponder some “idle.” Prof. John Gotman, a psychologist at the University of Washington, was particularly interested in what happened between people in his family and his son, did not hesitate to do more than 20 years of research for this purpose,