我成为母亲的那天并不是女儿出生的那日,而是七年后。在此之前,我疲于挽救争吵不断的婚姻。我费尽所有心力,只为营造一个“完美”的家(以期达到丈夫的挑剔要求),却没有留意我的宝贝女儿已经是个可以四处走动的孩子。我不断地取悦一个永远无法取悦的人——骤然发现,过去的时光已然溜走,再难找回。通常“为人母”应该做的 The day I became a mother was not the day my daughter was born, but seven years later. Before that, I was struggling to save the constant quarrel. I tried all my efforts, only to create a “perfect” home (in order to meet her husband’s critical requirements), but did not notice my baby daughter is already a child who can move around. I am constantly pleasing a person who can never be pleasantly surprised - I suddenly find out that the past time has slipped away and it is hard to find it. Usually “mother ” should do