不久前看到这样一篇报道:河南洛阳一位七旬老人,因老伴生前喜欢桃花,就在老伴骨灰所在的山头种下了百亩上万棵桃树。桃花开了,老人说:“桃树再陪着,也不如人呐……”这篇报道让人感到十分凄凉,同时也反映出失偶老人的精神是多么孤寂。失偶,是一个较为沉重的话题。老人失偶之后往往有孤独无助、失魂落魄、念念不忘、抑郁寡欢、焦虑悲伤、悔怨 Not long ago saw such a report: a 70-year-old man in Luoyang, Henan Province, because his wife liked peach in his lifetime, on the hill where his wife’s ashes planted hundreds of thousands of peach trees. Peach blossom, the old man said: “The peach tree to accompany, not as good as na ... ...” This article makes people feel very bleak, but also reflects the spirit of the elderly is lost, how lonely. Spouse, is a more heavy topic. The elderly often have loneliness after losing their spouse, lost their souls, never forget, depression, anxiety and sorrow, regret