帮女儿整理床铺时,无意中发现她在日记中写道:“妈妈思想好古董!什么年代了,还用老一套方法教育人,让我好遗憾!当我遇到挫折、情绪低落时,她给我的不是关怀和鼓励,而是毫无觉察、事不关已的样子;当我满怀信心、成功在望时,她却吝啬一句赞赏和肯定,只会说‘不要骄做、继续努力’。实在是老土到家,真让人吃不消!我多么希望她是我最好的朋友和听众啊!”这些话实在让我伤心难过:难道我不够爱她吗?做一个好母亲怎么越来越难呢? Help her daughter finishing the bed, accidentally discovered that she wrote in the diary: “Mom thought good antiques! What era, but also with the old set of methods to educate people, so I’m sorry! When I encounter setbacks, depression, she Instead of giving me care and encouragement, I felt no sense of what was left of me. When I was full of confidence and success was looking forward, she said nothing but praise and affirmation. I only said, ’Do not be arrogant and keep working hard.’ It is so overwhelming! I really wish she was my best friend and listener! ”These words really make me sad: Do I not love her enough? How to make a good mother, more and more Difficult?