应该说,每个孩子都是天生的探索者,他们对这个世充满了好奇,什么事都想尝试。特别是2岁以后,孩子走、能跑、能说了,他们的独立性有一个大幅度的增家长会发现,这么大的孩子什么事都想自己来。如拿子吃饭,尽管一边吃一边掉,也要抢着自己吃。再如系带、扣扣子等,虽然他们的动作笨拙,但还是要把家长推开,努力地自己去做。在这个练习的过程中,他们一方面在向别人炫耀自己,另一方面也是在检测和验证自己的能力,当事情在他的手中发生了按自己的愿望的变化时.他获得一种快乐和满足。这种胜任的感觉是自信的最初来源。 It should be said that every child is a natural explorer who is curious about this world and wants to try everything. Especially after the age of 2, children walk, run, can say, their independence has a substantial increase in parents will find that such a big child want to do anything. If nibble to eat, although eating while off, but also grab their own eating. Another example is the lace, buttoned, etc., although they are clumsy movements, but still have to push the parents, hard to do it yourself. In the course of this exercise, while showing off to others, on the one hand, and on the other hand, being able to detect and verify their own abilities when things happen in their own hands as they wish, he gains a sense of happiness Satisfy. This sense of competence is the initial source of confidence.