家庭是儿童价值品质养成最原初的平台。作为主流家庭模式的中国核心家庭具有以下特征:祖辈远离,独生子女,父母双工作。这种特征使造成核心家庭在儿童价值品质养成上出现困境:祖辈缺位致使“孝道”的失落,同辈缺失引发“友悌”的虚无,双职工父母忙碌导致童年的孤独。所以必须改革核心家庭模式,发挥学校教育的弥补作用与营造温馨的“社区-家”。 Family is the most original platform for children’s value and quality development. The Chinese nuclear family, which is the mainstream family model, has the following characteristics: grandparents stay away, only children and parents work in pairs. This feature causes the core family to suffer difficulties in the development of the children’s value and quality. The absence of grandparents results in the loss of filial piety and the loss of peers, which lead to the nihilism of friendship and the busy working parents. Therefore, it is necessary to reform the core family mode, to make up for the role of school education and to create a warm “community - home”.